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Isaac Renert's avatar

Good read! A lot of stuff to contemplate.

I'm wondering what your view is in terms of how you define that distinction between people having a personal style shared with others vs. being consumed by an aesthetic.

Do you think that when people choose to dress in this uniform styling, they're participating in the world as people who are trying to attach themselves to fashion as a concept? Because I feel like a lot of uniform guys kind of approach this form of dressing with only so much engagement. The people that are "into" fashion WOULD move further into directions that are unique to themselves, while most of the others utilize a simple, effective base in order to have good social capital on their side. The disappointment comes from the idea that it's harder to parse which is which if some core elements you appreciate are lost in the weeds of content farming wardrobes, but that feels like the natural progression of any subculture unfortunately.

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Colleen's avatar

Good read, but I agree with the above commenter that people who enjoy fashion and want a personal aesthetic will evolve past this, those who don’t- won’t! I follow a lot of cooking content and it can be the same- there’s a certain set of ingredients (herbs, preserved lemon, harissa, celery, anchovies) that it seems like everyone is into now. But some people are genuinely interested in food, as opposed to the people who see “having good taste in food” as a lifestyle & aesthetic goal. They might all start in the same place with cooking and entertaining, but the ones who are genuinely interested will move on to finding a way to cook and entertain that fits them, rather than always emulating what fits Alison Roman. And, similarly to your example of the perfect, well-worn suit, you can’t always tell the difference just by meeting them or eating a few meals— but you absolutely can if you know them well.

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